Musicians at Greek Weddings | Christine Constantine Photography

As a Cyprus wedding photographer for many years and now a London wedding photographer, I have always enjoyed the custom of having musicians present at a Greek wedding. When I arrive at a Groom’s Stolisma and prepare to shoot - the musicians arrive shortly afterwards and take their place next to the Groom’s chair - where he will be shaved and dressed by the best man according to tradition. Myself, the vidoegrapher and the guests are all ready and waiting for the music to start and the groom to enter the room and take his seat. The groom’s family stand behind his chair and the guests, who are mainly relatives of the groom and his family, gather around to watch the ceremony and be ready to participate.

All images taken by Christine Constantine Photography.

The musicians start playing the introduction of the main wedding song and the groom enters the room and takes his seat next to the musicians. The ceremony starts. The groom is dressed in a white vest. The ceremony starts when the musicians perform the main wedding song . The singer performs some verses of the wedding song and then the best man prepares the clothes for the shaving which is the first custom, starting the ceremony. All the customs are performed with the accompaniment of the violinist or the lutenist, who give instructions through the lyrics of the song.

The musicians always start performing the wedding song with these lyrics: “Oran kalin tzi ora agathin, tzi oran evloimenin, touti douleia p’ akepsamen, na vgei stereomeni”. The main wedding song starts with this greeting to the new couple and the poetic content is one of its most important features. The instrumental music is secondary to this. The lyrics sung are those of the wedding song, which will stimulate the guests and the couple to experience a variety of feelings. The wedding song has many couplets and refrains with different lyrics, which are repeated several times until all the customs are performed.

Some couples also opt for their wedding musicians to lead the procession to the church. as was the tradition in years gone by when many couples lived within walking distance of the church.

All images taken by Christine Constantine Photography.

Nine Steps to a Greek Orthodox Christening | Christine Constantine Photography

GREEK CHRISTENING TRADITIONS

A Greek Christening is a very important part of a baby’s introduction into the spiritual world. As a Christening photographer, I shot many Greek Orthodox Christenings before I began to understand the symbolism of each and every tradition, so I put together this blog to make things easier for you to understand by going through some of the traditions and the meanings behind them.

An Orthodox Christening is essentially two elements. Baptism and Chrismation. Baptism is the immersion into the Holy water by the priest and Chrismation follows the baptism whereby the child is anointed with holy oil. This is made up of olive oil and sweet smelling ingredients. The priest anoints the child by placing the oil on several parts of the body - the head, chest and feet. The child is now a Christian and a part of God’s people.

Below is a list of all components of the day as they occur chronologically:

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The Exorcisms

The prayer is followed by three Exorcisms and yet another prayer, the prayer of acceptance. After the Priest, summing up, asks God to drive out and banish from the baby any evil spirit which may be hiding in its heart and make him a member of the holy flock of Christ, a member of the Church, and a child and heir of God’s kingdom.

The Godparent, holding the child, is asked to face west and renounce the devil and all his works in a question and answer form (three times). He will then be asked to blow on the devil. In this case ‘west’ represents a place of darkness where the devil himself lives.

The Confession of Faith

Then the Godparent, holding the child, will face east again and affirmatively answer the Priest who will ask them (three times) if they have pledged their allegiance to Christ.

After doing so, the Godparent will recite the Creed, the Symbol of Faith (‘To Pistevo’ in Greek) which is a summary of the Orthodox teachings,

The Blessing of the Oil and Anointing

Once the priest has blessed the water in the font, the Godparent will offer a small bottle of olive oil over which a prayer for the banishment of evil is read.

The priest then pours three times in the shape of a cross, on the water in the Font, in order to render the consecration of the water complete.

The Godparents are now required to undress the baby who will then be anointed with the holy oil on the forehead, nose, ears, mouth, chest, legs, feet, hands and back. The Godparent will then anoint the child, to prepare him.

The Immersion

Now the baby will be immersed three times in the Font which represents the ‘Tomb of Christ, symbolically being ‘buried’ with Christ, then ‘raised’ with Christ.The baby is then removed from the Font and placed in the arms of the Godparent who is waiting for them with a white sheet. The truth of baptism lies in this profound action and is reflected in many of the prayers during this rite. The truth is that the candidate for baptism has chosen to die and be reborn for Christ. The newly baptized child is now a citizen of the Kingdom of Heaven.

The Chrismation

Holy Chrismation is the seal of the gift of the Holy Spirit which marks all baptized persons with a seal that sets them apart as possessions of Christ. The Holy Spirit thus embraces them and protects them like a shield to enable them to live the faith into which they have just been baptized. This is why Chrismation is also known as the Sacrament of the Holy Spirit. In fact the priest will recite "The seal of the gift of the Holy Ghost" (in Greek: Σφραγὶς δωρεᾶς Πνεύματος Ἁγίου) everytime he makes the sign of the cross on the baby with the oil. He makes the signs of the cross in the same parts of the body as the anointing prior to the baptism.

The sacrament of Chrismation is an extension of the day of Pentecost, when the Holy Ghost was poured out on the Apostles. It is by Chrismation that a person becomes part of the people of God.

The Tonsure

Tonsure is the practice of cutting or shaving some or all of the hair on the head as a symbol of religious devotion or humility. After the Baptism and Chrismation, the Priest will tonsure the child by cutting some of his hair crosswise to signify that Christ will be the head of the child from now on and that he will reject other allegiances.

The Vesting and Procession

The Priest now blesses the child and places a “garment of righteousness” on it. The child will then be taken by the Godparents to be dressed in fresh, clean garments and the Priest will read additional prayers.

The child the returns to the front of the church fully dressed and is prayed over with a symbolic washing away of the oil, receiving the blessing of Christ. The Priest then places a cross around the child’s neck as a sign of protection.

The Godparent, holding the infant, and followed by a child holding the baptismal candle (lambada), will then be led three times around the baptismal font. This is an act of rejoicing with the angels in heaven and with the other Christians present at the addition of one more member into the flock of Christ.

The Procession, conducted in the form of the Cross around the Font, is a joyous occasion and the Priest and Chanter sing “As many as have been baptized into Christ have put on Christ. Alleluya”.

The Readings

Bible readings follow, from the Epistle of St Paul to the Romans (6: 3-11) where Paul makes the comparison between the immersion and emersion with the Burial and Resurrection of Christ, and from the Gospel according to St. Matthew (28: 16-20) where the Divine Institution of Baptism was established. The Priest then reads the Conclusion prayers.

Holy Communion

The child is then given its first Holy Communion, its first taste of the Body and Blood of Christ. Just as a mother physically nourishes her newborn infant with milk, so too the Grace of God offers as spiritual food, Holy Communion to its newest member, just born through baptism.

For at least the next three Sundays after the Baptism, the Godparent will be expected to take the child to Church to receive further Holy Communions.

The mother of the baptized child will then be called by the Priest to make the sign of the Cross and kiss the Icon of Christ thanking Him for the great blessing of rendering her child a member of His Church. The service is now concluded and the baby and lambada is passed back to the parents. They will then be asked to kiss the hand of the Godparent as a sign of respect and gratitude for taking on the high responsibility of assisting in the spiritual development of the child throughout its life.

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Top Ten Greek Wedding and Christening Suppliers in London

You know in this blog I wanted to give a bit of a shout out to some of the Greek wedding suppliers I’ve met and worked with along my journey as a London wedding photographer. From cake-makers to dressmakers; from florists to fireworks. These people are the creators, the orchestrators of your wedding or event. They put their individual skills together for one moment in time and create a unique experience for your special day. All details are correct as of March 2022 and I plan to keep it updated with the latest news/photos and info on more suppliers I have the pleasure of meeting along the way.

All images below are taken by: Christine Constantine Photography.

A female documentary-style photographer and popular individual in the Greek and Cypriot community of London, Christine has also shot Weddings and Christenings not only in her hometown of London but also in Cyprus. She has over ten years experience of being a Greek Christening photographer, as well as a christening photographer of other faiths. She is kind, discreet and respectful; priding herself in shooting only the most natural, unobtrusive photography of your baby’s special day.

"We were highly impressed with Christine’s work, she managed to get all the shots we wanted for our daughter’s special day! Would highly recommend Christine for any special event. Thank you for capturing some great memories for our daughters Christening !

sophia panayi

She captured the mood, energy and love pouring out to our son, beautifully. She took the lead on capturing multiple types of pictures, both candid and posed, as well as all the important documenting style Christening pictures.
She also consulted us on the day with what/who else we wanted to capture.
She was subtle, friendly and encouraging. Will definitely be booking her for future events”

photis papachristou

“We had Christine as our wedding photographer and it was the best choice for us! She delivered exactly what we wanted. More natural photos and a photographer that would follow the wedding flow and not stage it. I would recommend her without hesitation!!’

Eleni Zissimou

Jamboree Carts | @jamboreecarts

I met the lovely Despina at a baby girl’s Christening last summer. I was immediately wowed by her decorative carts - the colour palette of the balloons and flowers - the layout - just the whole incredible design! I couldn’t stop taking pictures of it! The cart served the obligatory candy table, and all the colours perfectly matched! Stunning work.

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Sophie K Cakes | @sophiekcakes

I’ve also been pretty wowed by the talented Sophie from @sophiekcakes, who really does make the most BEAUTIFUL Christening cakes with incredible detail. Check these out!

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Bambino Couture | @bambinocoutureltd

I’ve photographed a few Christenings from the well-known and well-loved Maria from Bambino Couture (@bambinocoutureltd) who has made a name for herself as one of the main go-to suppliers when it comes to Christening gowns and outfits. She also does flower girl outfits and page boy outfits for wedding. Check out some of her designs here..

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Alexandria Couture | @alexandria.couture.uk

Alexandria Couture (@alexandria.couture.uk) is another well-known Christening outfit designer and is also a one-stop shop for all things Christening - lambadas, bombonieres, Christening gifts, Stefana for weddings etc. She has it all covered!

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Sofia Couture Baby Boutique | @sofiacouturebabyboutique

Maria from @sofiacouturebabyboutique is another incredible Christening supplier with a popular following in North London and beyond. Established in 2011 she has a 15.5 thousand followers on Instagram and also provides Boys’ & Girls’ Christening Wear & Accessories and personalised gifts. A one-stop shop based in N14, North London.

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Olivias Cakes | @olivias_cakes_london

Olivias Cakes (@olivias_cakes_london) are based on Silver Road, Edmonton, North London and cater for weddings, Christenings and birthday parties. Now a popular cafe also serving coffee and Cyprus sandwiches, owner Maria and her husband Theo have a growning reputation in the local area and beyond for preparing not just stunning creations, but vegan and gluten-free options too. I caught up with her when she was preparing for Easter. Check out the bunny cake! All cakes are made to order so get your order in FAST!

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Exciting Fireworks | @excitingfireworks

If you want you wedding or event to go off with a BANG you NEED the services of Exciting Fireworks!!

Nicos and his son Leon have been selling fireworks from their shop on Stroud Green Road in North London for over twenty years now. What these guys don’t know about fireworks and parties is not worth knowing!! They also provide indoor fireworks, smoke machines and smoke grenades for weddings and can tailor-make a display depending on your budget. Pop in today for a friendly chat and learn how you can add sparkles and magic to your special day!

St Katherine's Greek Orthodox Church Christening Photographer | Friern Barnet

Little baby Alicia’s parents asked me to be their Christening Photographer at the beautiful Greek Orthodox Church of St Katherine in Barnet, North London. Originally known as St James the Great Church (formally a Church of England Church) it sits on Friern Barnet Lane and Friary Road. It is of Norman character and retains much of its history. The rector Damian Konstantinou was very pleasant and conducted the baptism in a relaxed and friendly manner.

Check out more of my work here: www.christineconstantine.co.uk/christenings

Inside St Katherine’s Greek Orthodox Church

Check out more of my work here: www.christineconstantine.co.uk/christenings